Monday, August 07, 2006

RAJE...!!!

A name with which so many memories of mine are attached with........ with whom I have a bond so strong n so dear that I cant think living without him......... Now dont scratch ur heads n think anything......... I'm talking bout my

BROTHER YashodeepRaje
When we were kids, I was the one who always used to beat him n do mischieves, while he was very silent n never even used to cry......... My Mom always tells me that once while playing, I had literally ran over him.... but he didnt even cry.......
As we got older though the love between us increased, simultaniously our fights too...... but he never was wrong...... no matter we fought on which issue........ he was always right........
I still remember, that even when we were old enough to understand that we shouldnt fight this way....... we used to fight a lot....... n mostly the reason used to be the T.V. I used to watch TV like mad........ each n every serial, movie....... n anything which was telecasted on it, no matter if it was repeated one. He never liked TV since childhood n so we used to fight, as whenever I used to on it, he used to shut it.......... Now looking back, I'm myself mesmerised n dont believe that why on earth I used to watch it so much n waste my time..........
Now, dont just think n believe that we used to fight only............ the way he has encouraged me n supported me in my right decisions is unmeasurable.......... The reason that I could come to Mumbai n stay there for 2 yrs n do MMS is because he supported me the most. Most of my thinkings n good habits are credited to him. Though he is younger to me........... He is the one who always directs me on the right track whenever I'm going wrong, he is the one who explains me the 2 sides of anything in which I'm confused n not able to decide n thus helps me in taking decisions which I feel hard to.........
Though I lived in Mumbai, but I never felt that I was away from him, as he was always there whenever I needed him.......... But now I'm missing him very much......... I'm missing his scoldings, his jokes, n his encoragement n appriciation even in the smallest things I do.......
This would be my first Rakshabandhan that is without him........ But on this occasion I would like to Thank God for giving me such a Great n Lovable brother.........
I'm missing U a LOT Bro.......

Saturday, August 05, 2006

Friend......

The most important n dear person in everyones life...... Actually it is must for everyone to have atleast one friend in his/her life. A friend, one whom u can trust, share everything with n also look forward for help when in need........

Everything has changed....... n so has friendship. When I see my mummy's n papa's friends, though they rarely meet n that too after a gap of years, still they meet as if only few days have past. Actually now everything has changed in their life, everyone has his own family n a totally different world, but still the eagerness n happines in their meating is at peak. Eachone will always remember eachother atleast at some special occassion n will force to attend it. Whenever my papa goes to Pune, his college friends definitely meet at their regular katta keeping aside all urgent n important things. But todays friendship is so different..........

Today the most used medium of communication between friends is the mobile, mostly sms. Remembering someone, just sms......... wanna wish someone, just sms......... want help from someone, just sms......... even when u feel like fighting, just sms.......... Its so mechanical!!! I agree that todays environment has changed..... its technology thats ruling n also so efficient. The instantness in it makes it very useful.

Actually I would say that............ not the enviornment, but the person living in the environmrnt has changed n so he has changed everything around him as his convinience, as his wants. Today everyone wants others to feel that he/she is too busy, everyone is going for the status n to get that money is given importance. The most important thing (which is so commonly heared these days form everyone) is that, everyone wants his/her own space??? I really dont understand what do they exactly mean by this.......... N it is even in the most important n reliable husband n wife relationship............

I just dont get this......... Why dont people understand that the feeling of sharing something, demanding something, surprises, have so much happiness in them............ this gives everything........ nops this is everything that today people strive for in the developed countries. The lack of all these feelings is the reason for so many depressed people going even as far as suicide........ Why are we accepting that which the others are throwing??? When we already have it??? Why do we need a Friendship day to tell our friends how important they are for us??? But this is whats going on today....... n some things (i.e. the good ones) we have to accept.......... atleast people express their emotions is what is important for me, n so I accept these days (but not all)

The most important thing n emotion in life for which everyone dies is Love, n Friendship is the base for it...........

So............
Happy Friendship day!!! :)